Thursday, October 7, 2010
An Ending and A Beginning
Eleven months ago I decided to start this blog for one reason. It happened one year ago tomorrow. My roommate and I had a normal roommate disagreement -- voices were raised and doors were slammed. We were frustrated with eachother and were both having trouble understanding where the other one was coming from, when she quite literally snapped. Not in the "laugh about it later" kind of way that any one of us might finally lose our patience and lash out, but in the violent, breaking the law and making the apartment unsafe for me to live in kind of way. With the help of some fantastic friends, I moved out within 36 hours, and my life as a roommate ended.
I've always found writing cathartic, as any of you who've received an e-mail missive detailing some ridiculous thing that's happened to me already know. When I started this blog, it was the story of that crazy roommate that I really wanted to tell, but decided that organizing things chronologically made more sense. And honestly, who doesn't love a good story about a landlady making moonshine in her tenant's kitchen? But what's funny is that, now, I'm somewhat reluctant to tell the truly crazy roommate story. Maybe it's related to the little fear in the pit of my stomach I have that I'll run into her on the street sometime. Maybe it's that, unlike bathing in a bucket, there's nothing funny about filing a police report. I'll probably still write about it eventually, but it'll have to wait in line. I've got a few more Dirty Artie stories and of course you'll all have to be introduced to Bahrry with an "H" and his two hour long baths.
So tomorrow, in honor of one full year of living lavishly alone, I'll be celebrating at at least one happy hour. My New Yorker friends, come on out and lift a glass to all the fantastic friends who helped me one year ago, by giving me a place to stay, being my bodyguard, helping me pack (or really, doing all of the packing while I spun around in circles trying to get my bearings), helping the movers so I didn't have to pay as much, making me dinner and inviting me over for cake so I wouldn't have to be alone, proof-reading e-mails and checking on the landlord-tenant laws in New York State, calling to check-in, and even encouraging me to write this blog. You're the best!